MEETING OF CAFE MOHALLA ON WATER CONSERVATION

Date - 22nd may 2010

Yesterday there was Cafe Mohalla's meeting. I really enjoyed it .Our discussion was on water conservation. We made plans. Oh I am really sry just forget to tell about myself and my new journey - I am Swati Gupta and just few days back I joined Pravah . Well at last i joined an N.G.O. which I always wanted to join .Pravah is an N.G.O. which.works on social issues like water,education,woman rights,woman child,and a lot of current issues. It basically works for youth and with youth . Its motto is "self to society". It also organises CAFE MOHALLA for young people who want to do something different from others.

Well , I think i was sharing my first experience of Cafe Mohalla meeting. In this meeting our topic was "Rain water harvesting". I was feeling little bit uncomfortable because it has not passed much time to join this group but soon i was adjusted and not only adjusted but also enjoyed a lot. Beginning of meeting was from an introduction or rather I should say interesting introduction and then we played a game which was really great. Further we were being introduced with many methods of Rain water harvesting, after knowing that i felt how much water we waste? Its very bad.If we start to save water from today itself , the problem of water will vanish soon .One thing I learnt that we dont use water, we waste it more . That's why we are facing such kind of water problem. Hope soon people will understand the value of water and will start to save it.So our next step was planing for water conservation campaign.But till now, frankly speaking I was little tired and was feeling lack of energy. Meanwhile Jitendra had come and all volunteers requested him to sing a song as he is good singer and he plays songs with Guitar too.He sang some songs and again we felt new energy. And then our discussion had started again and Bhavay wrote down points. Oh I just forget to tell about Bhavya. He writes awesome poetry.He said his feelings about water problem and poverty in simple 4 lines.It was really touching.Then at last coordinators were decided , who are Aprajita and Siddhant.Well it was our meeting which i tried to write in words.I don't know how much i could write. At last I would like to thanks Jitesh, Aashutosh and Meenakshi di who facilitated this meeting.

I hope our next meeting which will be on 24th may 2010 at 11o'clock will be rocking and more interesting....(to be continue)

- Swati Gupta

                                                               ALAG DUNIYA

 "do u believe in angles my son?yes sister" these are the lines of "hum tum aur ghost". in this movie arman can see ghosts, can listen them. ghosts try to contact to arman when they got to know arman can hear them and can feel them they told thier problems to him and arman started to solve them. arman has gf gahna but when arman told her about his power she didnt believe upon him. she tried to admit him in the hospital but he refused.1 day a ghost keral contact to him and told her about her life and also told"how she died"?her soul is still in this world.she is not able to go in her world because her last iccha(to see her son)didnt fullfill. at last arman got to know that he is only her son but when he told this thing to her gf she left her to say that she cannot spend her life with a pagal aadmi,but when his gf's soul met to her mom's soul she realised that arman was right and as happened with bollywood movies"happy endding" gahna returned to back and she married with arman.

                                     This was just a starting so that i can say what i wanted to say. Is this really true?personnaly i realised there is truth behind it. kuch toh hai that we dnt know but afterall that exists. if we believe on God. chahe in d/f manner bagwan,allah n angel but i think its only super power that exists. when we all feel God is here then how can we reculant that ghost doesnt exists.but by the ghost it doesn't mean"buri aatma" ghost can be good. what is ghost? when we leave this world our soul goes in thier world,but because of some reason she can not  go in their world do.In this situation she feel helpless, and search some1 who can help her and when some 1 helped her and when they fullfill their desire then they can easily go in their world.this is my observation. i don't know how much i am right? but want to know ur views about "alag duiya". i know this is the endless topic than too want to talk on this topic.ur views are most welcomed. i have some questions here

1. Do u believe in ghost as well in angles?

2. if u believe than have u ever felt this?want to share ur experience with us...

3. what is this "alag duniya"? can we help them?

                                                                 personnal feelings

hi every bdy,i know after a long time i am here. actually just wanted to share something that's why  came here.i know if i didnt share this thing here i'll always feel as im hiding smething.abhi on 30th april i hv lost mah frnd.though i know we were not talking but i dnt why"when ever she came in mah mind water comes frm mah eyes.i m nt saying things to gain any sympathy,bas feel lyk as God said me 2share this thing that's why. i and she was very good frnds before 3yrs. we enjoyed some moments.they were the moments when we started to understand each other. she told about her past life and i also shared mah feelings. after 3 mths of friendship our ways become different. i went to banasthali and she took admission here in jaipur only,but afterall we were in contact through of letters. aaj bhi i have her lot of letters.but after 2 years when i was in 2nd year bcz of some reason our friendship has broken. after that day i never talked to her.after that shayad she called me but i never replied her. and this year we met again she told me so many things and also i talked to her as i think we are mature now.but after that i never talked to her she msged me once or twice but i didnt give her reply. "kash de deti"

1 day when i was studying got aunty's call"shewta is serious beta,she got accident". wt?????
coudnt believe on mah ears.remembered all those days and time that we spent together. next day when i went to hospital aunty and uncle was there. doctor said"there is only 1% chance, but i couldnt believe. i felt "soon she will b fine".on 30th when i came from exam i called di and wtever she said.................for 1 sec. toh couldnt believe.shewta has gone. she left us........."oh mah god"
                          i was speechless, mah mind stoped to work, laga jase shewta is saying"mat de reply beta"......aab toh i'll never send u msg.i went on terrace and told to mah friend and after that could'nt controll on mah self...feel like a shoulder upon whom i can cry, a tight hug who can hold me, feel like a silence who can understand mah silence jo bas ek hi baat kah rahi thi"I am sorry shewta"i am really very sry........
              life is very short, we really dnt know"how much time God has given to us"?will say only one thing"forgive and forget" and live the life fully. never ever hurt any one bcz if u'll do this will come back to u.
                              
                                           

                                   IS IT FRIENDSHIP OR WHAT?????  
             sheena was sitting in her room,as usual she was listing music with her work.books 
             was scattered here and there!mobile was there on table!she was so busy with music 
             that she couldn't hear the voice of mobile...ohhhhhh "1 missed call"....
             she thought...but i toh dnt knw this no.  
             who   is this???
             again mobile rang...she attended.....and..................
                         you??( after 5 yrs she was listing his voice.......)
                       ? :"hws u miss???kaisi hai moti? (kitne dino baad kisi ne pucha?)(she thought)
                         "sab thik toh hai kuch bol kyu nhi rahi...." 
                          (sunkar asa laga ki jase kal hi toh baat hui hai)! 
                          lekin sheena kya bole???gussa kare ya phir.........
                        (socha toh yahi tha but shayad use bharosa hi nahi ho raha tha...ki ye usi ki voice hai!)
               sheena: im fine...hws u? "from where you got mah no.?"
                           ?:will tell every thing 1st give me congratulations.....
               sheena: for what?
                          ?: i got job abhi just half an hour  and u know what you are the 1st whom im  
                            teeling...........promise jo kiya tha!
              sheena   : " tuge aab tak yaad hai......i toh was like ki tu bhul gaya hoga!
                           :tu bhul gayi but i remember u got it......
               sheena: nahi yaar asi baat nahi hai chal chod newaz.....u say? where r u?
                         ?:jaipur(smile)
               sheena: what???
                          ?: kal milte hai!k
                sheena: where???
                           ?:ohhhhhhhh aab ye bhi yaad dilana padega.......tubelight usi jagha par......
                 sheena : k baba but tu aaj bhi late aayega ya phir......chal koi nahi will wait! chal than kal milte
                           ? :hai...bye tc!God bless u!    
                           ? :  tu abhi tak ye sab kuch bolti hai!gr8 yar!God bless u too!gud nyt!

                     (sheena cut the phone and trying to believe ki ye vahi bharat tha... best frnd of him!)
         

                                                            EDUCATION  SYSTEM
              "sir, what is pratical use of this...i mean why we are studying this  kaldor model? ohhh beta why are u gonig so deep...just solve 5 yrs question paper that is enough for good marks!bt sir........."
                this is our education system where we are studying only for marks! we don't want to know the ans. of "why" n "how"......... what we want? MARKS and degree!!!
                 some times i really felt irrited to see our education system where we don't want anything new?? its not like ki we don't want something new but  it is tradition ki if we didnt get good marks then our carrer will not be good.....for ex: in rajasthan university course is the same as was 10 years before......isn't should be change?? Is there some meaning to study that? as a economics student, most of the thing, we are studying, is not relevent in present...if we compare it to other university there is tradition of intership after PG....but  here many students even don't know about this? Is this backward subject or what?(what was the reason of economic recession in USA? what are the monetary and fiscal policy that govt. should adopt in this recession time?) these all are part of  economics itself then i don't know why we don't wan use it practically?only by getting marks or degrees we cn't solve these problems.....(i think so)
                   another thing that i felt is the lackness of counselling....if any student have any problem related to subject or carrer where he n she go?
                   ya the bigger thing "library" basic need for any student....one day i went to library. i thought i'll study over there but i came back with half an hour. i wanted to search a book. i searched but as llibrary  is not computerised i didnt find the book. i have wasted mah 20 min. to search the book. at last i came back. i said this to mah frnd and she said" it is expected swati.asa toh hamesha hi hota hai. govt. university hai yar"!
              so frnds what you think about our education system? should there b change of any kind or you are satisfied with this system? if you are not agree that what change should be there and how we can apply them? give ur suggestions?       
                             

                                                        POWER OF YOUTH
                     
                       We says ourself youth..as a youth we are the future of India but are we working according to that? we are so much busy in our daily life or so many things that we have't  time to think about our India..Let us take an example, ask to any body"when is valentian or friendship day"?I am sure they will be having ans of this and they will start prepation before 5 or 10 days.but ever we thought about republic day or independence day.today one of my friend wished me"happy independence day swati" i thought a sec . ki suddenly somebody said to her" miss today there is republice day" what is it?? yest. in litery fest shobha day said"youth are the future of india" and we have so many expectation from them".
                                                  will we prove ourself as future of  India??cnt we do something?i know there is somebody who thinks about that but problem is that who will take initiative?but i think there is no need to take initiative only need to make a homogenous group where we can discuss about"choti choti baate" . i dnt know why i am writing this even i don't know Is there any mean of this?plz give me ur opinion........eagrely im waiting of ur ans.....

                                                                      LIFE

                        How strange life na? some times we want every thing from life i mean we have so many ambitions but at the other moment we want nothing........and when we want to know the ans. of this question that is nothing.....same is with persons. at a 1 time we like somebody but at the next moment we forget very easily...and may b in future we even don't want to see his or her face.i dnt know other's opinion,may b some will b satisfies and others will not like it ....im sorry,but this is the thing what i felt......but its ok.may b"bagwan jo bhi karte hai achha hi karte hai"...till yest. i had so many dreams and to but today i dnt want nothing.dnt know why? want peace. feel like questions in every thing like why we are living in socity??why we have to marry if don't want?why we have to study? why we can't do the things what we want to do?today i havn't ans. of these questions hope tomaarow i'll have..